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When parents separate, it is stressful and worrying for both parents. It can be even more stressful and worrying for a child.
Any child, when their parents separate, need reassurance that their parents love them, and that the separation is not their fault. Children will, in most circumstances, benefit from keeping contact with both of their parents.
It is always best to try and agree arrangements that work for both parents and the children. It can be a good idea to have a written Parenting Plan drawn up and useful guidance as to what to consider and how a Parenting Plan can look can be found on the Cafcass website.
The Children Act 1989 introduced several principles to guide parents and Courts in agreeing arrangements for their children, including:
There is a presumption that both parents being involved in the child’s life will further the child’s welfare unless the contrary is shown.
This sets out the factors that should be considered when making decisions about children and which the Court must consider when an application is made to Court. These are:
In any decision or agreement about your children, the welfare of the child or children must be paramount.
These are Orders stating who the child is to live with (these used to be known as custody/residence orders) and how much time they spend with the other parent (previously known as access/contact orders). The Order can also include details of how the arrangements are to be managed, such as handovers or if a parent needs to be supervised.
A Specific Issue Order is made by the Court when a parent is required to take a specific step in respect of the child’s upbringing. For example, which school a child should attend or what their surname should be.
A Prohibited Steps Order is the opposite to a Specific Issue Order and is made to prevent a parent from exercising a certain parental right. For example, a Prohibited Steps Order can prevent a parent from removing a child from the other parent or their school or removing them from the jurisdiction.
The Children Act 1989 defines parental responsibility as “all the rights, duties, powers and responsibilities and authority which by law a parent of a child has in relation to the child and his property”.
In practical terms, parental responsibility means that those with parental responsibility should consult each other on major decisions concerning the child(ren’s) welfare which can include medical and educational decisions. If at any point you cannot come to an agreement in relation to an important decision, then it may be that you will have to apply to Court for one or more of the Orders set out above.
A mother automatically has parental responsibility for their children, a father automatically has parental responsibility if they are named on the child’s birth certificate or married at the time of the child(ren’s) birth, or they can acquire parental responsibility by a formal agreement (called a Parental Responsibility Agreement) or Court Order.
Other adults who have been involved in the children’s upbringing (such as grandparents, step parents, siblings, foster parents) may be able to apply for Orders. Certain restrictions may apply and they may first need the Court’s permission to make an application. More details can be found here.
Further information for parents can be found on the Resolution website or the Cafcass website.
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